Supercharge your Confidence

by Lynette Beer

It breaks my heart when I see a woman with low self-esteem, who doesn’t have the confidence to live her dreams and reach her full potential. It is the most unnecessary feeling in the world! If you know who you are and specifically who you are in Christ, you will have all the confidence to take on the world.

One of the biggest mistakes a woman can make is to try to be like someone else. Why? Why do you want to look like that model in the magazine? Why do you want to be like your pastor’s wife or your sister or your colleague at work? You have to be yourself.

That’s who God made you to be. Listen to what the Bible says in Ps 139: 13 -16:

Oh yes, you shaped me first inside, then out; you formed me in my mother’s womb. I thank you, High God – you’re breathtaking! Body and soul, I am marvelously made! I worship in adoration – what a creation! You know me inside and out, you know every bone in my body; You know exactly how I was made, bit by bit, how I was sculpted from nothing into something. Like an open book, you watched me grow from conception to birth; all the stages of my life were spread out before you, The days of my life all prepared before I’d even lived one day. (The Message)

You were born to be somebody, to leave your mark and to change the world. You were born to exceed the limits placed on you by others and to live a life of success and to have a spirit of excellence. You were born to be extra-ordinary and to live beyond your circumstances, rather than be defined by them.

So what happened to you? When did you decide that the road of greatness was not for you? When did you decide that you are the victim of your circumstances? Why do you allow fear, and the voices of discouraging people, to handcuff you?

God sculpted you from nothing into something and before you were even born, He had a plan for your life. There is something very specific He wants you to do with your life. He created you with purpose and He left a dream in your heart.

It is up to you to make that dream a reality. But you can only do that if you have confidence in yourself. You have to understand that there is only one of you. You are unique. You have a specific character, temperament and personlity with weak points and strong points, with talents and gifts. Learn how to enhance your strong points, polish your talents and be the you you were born to be!

Do you live a focused, purposeful life?

with Lynette Beer 

I don’t want to know how busy you are, or how much you are doing for your church. I want to know if you live a focused, purposeful life. In other words, are you living life to your fullest potential, according to the plans, dreams, talents and gifts that God has built into your heart even before you were born?

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you; I appointed you a prophet to the nations.” Jeremiah 1:5

 You need to grasp this truth today. There is no such thing as a man or a woman without a dream. We were all created to have dreams; we have a destiny and a reason for living. What is your calling in life? Maybe you don’t even know where to begin figuring this one out. Well, what is that one thing that you did when you were a child? Maybe you were always playing with your dolls, pretending they were sick and you had to get them back to health. Or you lined them up in a row and played you were the teacher. Maybe you didn’t like playing with dolls at all, but were forever building stuff with whatever you could lay your hands on, designing towers with your mother’s pots and pans or making roads in the dirt.

 But, somewhere along the line you changed. You didn’t do that anymore. You started to listen to what other people were saying about what you should do and not do, what you should study and how you should live your life, and eventually that passion faded. Now, every time someone talks about fulfilling your dreams, and adhering to your calling in life, you have this niggling uneasiness in the back of your mind. And you wonder… what if I am not doing what I am supposed to be doing?  

Then of course there are the things you catch yourself daydreaming about. Maybe it is to write a book, be an artist, start your own business, but then you forget about it again and carry on with your normal, day-to-day life, wondering if this is it? Is this what life is all about?  

No, a 1000 times over no! God thought of you before you were born and he had a plan for you before you were in the womb. God knew who the accountants, the business men, the writers, the actors, the engineers, the teachers, the chefs, the pathologists, the home-makers, and the mechanics would be. Regardless of what you do, what your title is, or what your salary is, you were created to have an impact in the world and to leave a mark on our generation. Just do it!

 

Be Confident in Him

with Pearl Kupe

Greetings to all you incredible women out there!

Well, we are slowly, but surely counting down the days until we all meet in Port Elizabeth for the Arise Women’s Conference. As we prepare our hearts, minds and spirits for what promises to be an AMAZING time in His Presence, it is my singular honour to share a few words with you on this blog!

The scripture we are looking at is from Colossians 2:2-4 (Message Bible) and it reads as follows:

I want you woven into a tapestry of love, in touch with everything there is to know of God. Then you will have minds confident and at rest, focused on Christ, God’s great mystery. All the richest treasures of wisdom and knowledge are embedded in that mystery and nowhere else. And we’ve been shown the mystery!

There is so much going on in the world these days, with the violence against women, corruption, wars, terrorism and extremism we see around the world, poverty and crime, it is easy to start panicking and to take our eyes off of God.

When I read this scripture, the word CONFIDENT popped up in my spirit. The world teaches us to have confidence in ourselves and in our own ability, but the Word of God says we are to be confident in God. The world teaches us to have confidence in our looks, our intelligence and in our abilities, but the Word says to be rooted and established in Him. It is not a sin to want to look good, smell nice and to keep in shape, but as we do so, let us be fully conscious of the fact that our CONFIDENCE must come from being a Child of God and from being connected to God.

Galatians 3:27-29 says the following:

For all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise.

The scripture reminds us that it is not about the tribe we come from, the class we belong to, or our gender, but it is about having our IDENTITY in Christ. When our identity is in Christ, we are fully able to walk in confidence knowing that it is well with us and our families.

Won’t you step out in confidence today, knowing that because you belong to Him, you are safe and because you belong to Him, He will keep you, increase you and your household and that you will live to see the faithfulness of God and to testify of His goodness, mercy and grace!

BE CONFIDENT IN HIM!! BE CONFIDENT IN HIS ABILITY! BE CONFIDENT IN HIS POWER!

Much love, Pearl Kupe

Arise 2016 was an Experience!

Meditating on what has once again been a powerful and life-changing Arise conference, but mindful of the fact that each of our eleven women’s conferences has had its own particular impact, so many thoughts run through my mind.

In my preparation for yet another conference – for the pastors and their wives in Dar es Salam – I realized that of everything one can do in life, this is the calling where the subject of relationships can be the most trying. There are specific challenges that come with ministry, such as working with people who have a great deal of brokenness in their lives and dealing with rejection from people you have put your time, care and energy into. This work, and the broken relationships that so often accompanies it, has a very real impact on pastors personally, as well as on ministry couples and volunteer workers across the world.

We have an enemy who knows that because we have influence, the area of relationships is the most vulnerable and challenging in our lives, and that it has the potential to negatively impact many people, if it should break down.  

But above all, pastoring is about the people and shining God’s colours to and with others. When we are exactly and uniquely who God made us to be, we shine our particular God colour in our area of influence. Life is full of possibilities and opportunities where God allows us to be real and to shine. In a colourless and challenging world we have the real answers and we need to reflect these in our lives. Your area of influence is your world where you are called to shine!

This year at Arise God spoke to us in a challenging, and sometimes uncomfortable, but relevant way. 

ChiChi Bismark’s life is a testimony of what can happen if the biblical principles about success are followed.  She is worth millions as a result of conducting her business the kingdom principle way. Through her wise use and investment of money – as well as her creative thinking – she has achieved financial success in a country that is both bankrupt and corrupt.  That said everything to me! God’s kingdom finance principles work wherever you are, if you are willing to change your lifestyle and do life God’s way.

Timothy Kieswetter was a breath of fresh air who went ‘where angels fear to tread.’ He was both tactful and funny! We have received testimonies from husbands who are grateful to Timothy for being at Arise, saying they received a ‘new wife’ and that their marriages were healthy again.  We have heard of many women who have changed their attitude toward their husband since the conference and have seen their marriages restored.

The atmosphere of peace and the sounds of laughter that filled the air were wonderful – even our store holders and therapists remarked on this. Our workshops were outstanding, and our praise and worship anointed. The anointing was so strongly felt on the church grounds that people started weeping with joy as they drove in without knowing why. 

I have always said that Arise is not just a conference, it is an experience.

We have the most amazing line-up of speakers for 2017, which I believe God has specially put together for us. Each one is truly powerful!  Book now to pay the best price and secure your space! I believe we are going to be packed out.

I am ‘Captivated’  with anticipation for Arise 2017!

Much love,

Pastor Mariana Crompton

 

Love will cover what was done wrong


Arise Blog Timothyby Timothy Kieswetter

I would like to start today’s article with one of Solomon’s wisdoms. When it came to marital doings, he knew what he was talking about. With a thousand women, he certainly may not have done everything right, but he definitely knew that everything in a marriage can go either wrong or right.

Proverbs 10:12

“Hatred stirs up strife, But love covers all transgressions…”

This might be such a simple short verse, but it contains a deep and powerful truth. Hate brings arguments and love covers what was done wrong.

Visualize that your marriage has two rooms. There is a hate-room and a love-room. The room in which you live, is the room that will affect your marriage the most.

You might think that hate is a terribly strong word to use. After all, you do not have hate in your heart for your husband or wife. Our first thought of hate is those emotions that you feel just before you kill someone, and because you do not really want to kill your spouse, you do not really hate the person. Therefore I want to show you that hatred, like any other emotion, has degrees of intensity. And no matter how cute your husband or wife is, we all have a “hate-room” in our hearts.

There are some key differences between our hate-room and our love-room that will indicate in which room we spend most of our time.

  • Hate is motivated by what is right and wrong, true love is motivated by grace. If you are constantly focused on the right and wrong in your marriage, it’s always going to evoke bitterness and hate emotions rather than grace and forgiveness.
  • Hate will always focus on a person’s behaviour, whereas love will try to see the bigger picture. For example, your husband comes home drunk, and you immediately zoom in on his negative behaviour, this immediately places you in your hate-room. But if you are in your love room, you will always try to put your husband’s behaviour into CONTEXT. You ask for context by grace, not by cross-examination. Then you might find out that he lost his job, or his father died and you are able to (because love always pursues the context and not the behaviour) promote intimacy, instead of hostility.
  • Hate will always make you the victim. You start feeling sorry for yourself because you deserve better. Keep feeling sorry for yourself long enough and you will be one step closer to falling into the clutches of depression. Love on the other hand, is NOT focused on the OWN I, but the brokenness of the other person. Because it sees the bigger picture and understands the context of your partner’s behaviour, you have the emotional capacity to NOT make this YOUR battle, but to see and acknowledge your partner’s cry for attention and acceptance.

Broken people use negative behaviour to get attention and love. This is not the best way to get any of the two. So, when we stay in our hate-rooms we will give exactly the opposite of what the broken person needs. We’ll just deepen their brokenness and thus remain trapped in the negative and unhealthy cycle of behaviour.

  • Hate judges a person on what he has done. It is great at digging up old cows and makes a habit of linking a person’s value and character to their mistakes. Hate never lets the past rest and keeps the person from ever moving on with their life or making right what had gone wrong. The offense will forever hang, like a sword, over the person’s head.

Love works a little differently. Love doesn’t connect a person’s value to what they do or didn’t do, but focusses on the divine potential in every person. It speaks to the good and beautiful in everyone.

In what room do you find yourself?

What kind of atmosphere is present in your marriage? Quarrel or peace? Hate or love?

The door between your hate-room and your love room contains FORGIVENESS. Start today by forgiving yourself, forgive the people around you and forgive God. Move out of your hate-room and come into your love-room, where you can experience peace and quiet.

 

 

 

 

 

 

True colours – God Colours – Shine !

All theShine 3se words come to mind when thinking about this year’s True Colours Arise conference.

Have you ever read Alice in Wonderland? ‘WONDER LAND…’ The thought of entering, and like Alice, living in ‘Wonderland’ conjures up so many images in my mind. What is a land of wonders?

We are meant to live in a wondrous place of grace, beauty and power with a wonderful God. “Great God of wonders, God of grace,” as the old hymn says. Our God is supernatural – He lives in that realm of the heavenly places where miracles are normal and signs and wonders are part of His ways.

Wonderful! Wonders all around! Wondrous!

In my mind’s eye I see flashes of light, like colourful stars all around, and have a feeling of being lifted off the ground, floating – delightful and wondrous! I see myself looking down on a broken world, and being a part of the answer, if only in a small sense.

Ladies, don’t ever lose that childlike ability to enjoy God.  You see, if you are childlike, it means you are dependent on God. It also means you enjoy and take pleasure in who God is and what He does. If He IS, then He must DO, because love always brings action. Love starts in our heart and manifests through our hands, our feet, or our mouth (in words). In other words, there is action.

We need to shine our ‘God colours’ in a world needing ‘character colour’ to shine, and in this way draw people to the God in us, producing in them a desire to know Him. He demonstrates His wonderful and generous nature through us.

God has many, many attributes, but this time we are talking about His wonders. God desires us to live in Wonder Land – because He is wonderful and He wants to make our lives wonderful. Actually, you are a wonder. Sometimes you become a sign in this world to make people wonder.

See you at Arise!

Pastor Mariana Crompton

Arise Elise Blog Post Option Two

 

Healthy Relationships are built on three pillars:

LOVE

RESPECT

TRUST

 

Arise 2016 will demonstrate to you how different colours can create the most beautiful piece of art. A piece of art that will capture your imagination and envelope you in the love of Christ. 

By discovering this amazing love, you will also learn to respect and love the different colours of our rainbow nation…and as the beautiful colours of LOVE and RESPECT flow together, a bridge called TRUST will be built.

Come and experience how the Holy Spirit can:

Create

Build

and Repair…the strongest bridge,

called TRUST.

 

Elise Botha

Communication and Relationship Therapist.

CAT THERAPY: Christian Active Therapy

 

Shine!

MattArise Blog Julyhew 5: 14 -16 – You’re here to be light, bringing out the God-colors in the world. God is not a secret to be kept. We’re going public with this, as public as a city on a hill. If I make you light-bearers, you don’t think I’m going to hide you under a bucket, do you? I’m putting you on a light stand. Now that I’ve put you there on a hilltop, on a light stand—shine!
 
Have you ever tried to visualize a world without colour?

I love nature: the beauty of the rose; the thrill of a breathtaking sunset; the unfolding of God’s carpets of green; the glittering descent of a sparkling waterfall; the tranquility of a peaceful sea, lapping its relaxed waves on the shore, and so much more. All of these would lose much of their appeal were it not for the miracle of colour.
 
From early childhood these miracles of creation were indelibly impressed on our minds through the medium of colour. All of this is not without purpose; in fact God has designed it so. The more our hearts are turned to Him, the more we grow to be like Him, producing ‘God colours’ in our lives.

This is the reason for the colours of the spectrum: in the rainbow; the curtains of the tabernacle; Ezekiel’s Temple; and the pillars of the New Jerusalem, to name only a few. They all speak of the nature and beauty of our God and how He wants to reproduce that in each one of us, reflecting the wonder of His amazing salvation. A salvation that is something to be spoken about.

We are called to be lightbearers. This year at Arise “God colours” we will be challenged and equipped to SHINE! Darkness does not exist! It is the absence of light. We are lightbearers reinforcing the fact that the prince of darkness – satan – has been defeated by the source of light – God Himself.

“God is light and in Him there is no darkness at all”.

It was He who said, “Let there be light.”


Lightbearers, let’s shine, and be the source of light which draws women, out of the dark places in life, to our conference this year!  

 

Pastor Mariana Crompton

Connected

Sitting in my hotel room in LouisArise Blogville this morning, brings back so many memories of past relationships with friends I look forward to reconnecting with in eternity. We live in a world that is so connected via the internet and social media, and yet a sense of belonging, and feeling worth and acceptance is disconnected in most people’s lives. It’s so easy to forget that real relationships and feeling loved come from face-to-face ‘touch’ and regularly connecting with people.

One of the integral aspects of the experience that is Arise and which makes it unique is the opportunity to connect with women from everywhere in a beautiful at
mosphere. Arise is where you can feel pampered while chilling with old and making new friends.

It is like taking a holiday while being fed spiritually. It is where we make a deposit in our heavenly bank account and future in eternity. That sounds like a win-win to me. See you there!

 

Pastor Mariana

Relationships

by Mariana Crompton

WHY RELATIONSHIPS?

Relationships, as we have all discovered, can make life near amazing or almost unbearable. They provide songwriters with material for countless lyrics, awakening warm fuzzy feelings or the downhearted blues. From as early as when we are in our mother’s womb we are taught lessons about life and relationships – whether they be positive or negative. These lessons have an affect on the way we relate to God and to people, be it our own parents, in-laws, husband, children, family, colleagues, friends or just in general.

I have found that when it comes to healthy relationships, there is no one-size-fits-all piece of advice, but rather a pattern that God has laid out for us in His Word. A good relationship is more than something we want, it is something we need in order to be our happiest, healthiest and most productive selves. However, at home or at work, supportive, fulfilling relationships don’t happen automatically. They require an investment of our time and energy, as well as social skills, that are learned.

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Women’s Turning Point Encounter Weekend
8-10 June 2018, 12 -13 October 2018

Arise Girlfriends Evening
26 June 2018

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7- 9 September 2018

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